Jan 29, 2010 by Jenny
Personal fulfillment a fragile foundation for marriage
A WSJ article rightly linked college education to marital stability, but a concluding comment poorly diagnosed the correlation.
Economist Betsey Stevenson told the WSJ that college-educated couples may be less likely to divorce than couples without a college education because they “were less likely to see marriage as a source of financial stability” but instead as “a source of personal fulfillment.”
This statement isn’t supported by recent historical and sociological research. American ideas of romance are so tied up with marriage that it seems less likely today than previous to 1950 that any modern couple marries inspired by economic stability. And scholars have linked the goal of personal fulfillment to marital fragility.
Marriage scholar David Popenoe wrote the following in the 2007 “State of Our Unions” report:
Marriage is now based almost entirely on close friendship and romantic love, mostly stripped of the economic dependencies, legal and religious restriction, and extended family pressures that have held marriages together for most of human history.
Sociology professor and author Andrew J. Cherlin also commented on the fragility of of marriages based on personal fulfillment in the Washington Post:
“Marriage today, like the rest of our lives, is about personal satisfaction,” said Andrew J. Cherlin, a sociology and public policy professor at Johns Hopkins University, noting that there are mixed consequences for the changing views of marriage.
“It allows us to grow and change throughout our lives, and most Americans value that,” Cherlin said. “On the other hand, our relationships are much more fragile, because we think we should leave them if they become unsatisfying.”
What is more likely is that when the tough times come–and they always do–education and more financial resources give the college-educated couple more tools at their disposal to ride out the storm.